Psychic Debra is an empath, clairsensitive, clairvoyant (the ability to see events), clairaudient (the ability to hear things), channeler (the ability of being able to pass on information from others who have crossed over), and a Shaman (the ability to facilitate healing by helping an individual receive spiritual information and enlightenment). She does not use divination tools ( i.e. tarot, runes, numerology, etc.) during her readings. Psychic Deb offers private online, in-person, and phone readings. Contact her now to request your private reading.
May you always feel loved, Psychic Debra
Namaste! My name is Debra, many of my friends call me DJ. I want to take this opportunity to share with you about my life, my beliefs and my beliefs as a Psychic, Spiritual Medium.
I was born in the southwest many moons ago, I am the fourth child out of five children. I had the honor and privelege to be raised by two parents that I knew without a doubt, loved and believed in me. My mother always stated out of her 5 kids, I was her different one, and over the years it became a joke between my siblings and I. Most importantly, I owe it to my parents for instilling in me the strong beliefs of God, the importance of family, and showing through their own lives how ones own weaknesses and faults could turn around to become ones strengths.They taught me the importance of not to be just a follower, but to question and to search for what I would ultimately come to believe, not just about myself, or life, but even my religious beliefs. My family wasn't the "perfect family"....we had our struggles and hurts like all families. Yet, through all that we had to encounter we learned the importance of "forgiveness" and finding that through our love as a family, that "love does endure even in the darkest of hours". I grew up with a father who was a alcoholic, this created much strife between my parents and for us, his children who loved him. We got to witness the "grace of God" work through his life, in seeing him turn his life around and becoming that "light of hope" for others who would have to struggle with their own "afflictions". I would watch over the years how my Mother would hold all of us up in her prayers, and too see those "prayers" answered. All of us have grown up to go on and live different lives, yet all five of us kids, would tell you that through our parents love, convictions, and life teachings, we were given a "vast pool of wisdom" to use in our own lives.
I have had the wonderful opportunity of living in nine different states and being able to travel around the country in my lifetime. I always wondered if perhaps I should of been born a gypsy ....but as my mother would share....its that free spirit that I have. I have had the privelege to attend Bible College in Rhode Island, where I knew that someday I wanted to a missionary...I knew then and know even now that "I'm on that mission from God, that He has called me too!" While in Bible College, I concentrated my studies on the history of the Old Testament, while taking courses in Christian Psychology. I went on to take further courses in Business. Being that Taurus, I am very drawn to "numbers"....so it shouldn't come as a surprise that I would end up in Banking. I started out early in the Banking industry which I left for several years to raise my three children. I had the wonderful opportunity to be a "stay home mom". While my children were growing up, I was able to work in several different programs through volunteer work. I have served on School Boards, sat on Local and State PTA's board, served on Mental Health Boards, and various Church committees. I wasn't one who could just sit at home....I have always felt this need.....that not only should we be "takers" of a community, but we should also give back to that which we belong and are a part of. Over the years I have ran my own businesses, keeping books and doing taxes for sole proprietors.
During my life, I had to go through one of the bleakest moment, which not only shook my faith in God, it shook my faith in humanity and myself. I had to go through overcoming the trauma and depression of being a rape victim. At the time of the rape I always had thought how trusting I was, perhaps even somewhat naive. No one can prepare you for what is involved in being a "victim". Immediately after the rape, I was determined I was just going to "pretend it never happened" and go on with my life. I begin to shut myself off from those I loved, I became paranoid, afraid to leave my home, the nightmares that not only came when I slept....but became a part of my waking hours. I became so desperate, and depressed, that I ended up trying to commit suicide. I couldn't understand why God would allow this to happen to me. This not only affected me, it affected those I loved. It took me getting to that point of wanting to die......to get the help I needed in order to put my life back together. Over time I begin to work through the horrors of what had happened, it didn't just change me, as time would have it, I would see that through this experience there was to be very many positive things that would come out of what I had to go through. I begin to see that even though we don't always get "choices" in what we encounter or go through......that God does give us choices at all times in how we will let "it" effect our lives. I could of stayed "a victim" or I could become the "conquerer". It is with confidence I can say, and with my faith in God, that I am no longer "a victim"!
I recently remarried, to my husband Gary, who is the is love of my life. Gary and I both are total opposites, yet from the moment we met, there has been that "special bond" which at the beginning we didn't understand, but as time goes, we are discovering how "our differences" is the very special "glue" that makes our relationship work. Gary is also a psychic, he has had his gifts from childhood. We currently reside in the beautiful state of Kentucky, where we make it our home. Gary is supportive in the work that I do, even though he doesn't use his gifts to read professionally, he does know that for me, that this is what I am too be doing. We both know that we not only met due to our relationship/marriage, but through our relationship we both would be working together to use our "gifts". At times that I question my calling, it is Gary that is there to encourage me to step beyond those doubts and fears. Gary has been that "harbour" that assurance during the emotional crisises that I have had to go through. He came into my life at a difficult time, my father was suffering with alzheimers, which is an emotional upheaval for those families who have to go through this illness. Gary has stood with me, even at times giving me that "kick in the posterior" I need to get back on track. He is not just my husband, the love of my life, he is my lifemate and soulmate ....but most of all my best friend!
I have been deeply blessed to have three wonderful children, two sons and a daughter, and a stepson. They have been not only an inspiration to me but as life would have it, they are now in that stage of life instead of just being that parent, we now are on that journey of having a beautiful friendship as well. They had to go and grow up on me which was on one hand a hard thing to have to go through as a parent. They have taught me the importance of "learning to let go". They have helped me to see the importance of keeping that "inner child alive"......and seeing with that "childlike faith". Yet, on the other hand, it is most rewarding to see them stand on their own two feet becoming adults with their own families. So far, they have blessed me with two beautiful granddaughters, both even though very young are very intuitive and will be interesting to watch them develop.
It has been through all these experiences, places and events in my life, gradually I begin to understand what it is that God has given me.......as I call them "gifts" and I honestly believe these are gifts from God, to be used to help others. I am only the instrument that God uses to give "messages" to those who need insight or help into their lives. I don't use these gifts as some would say for fortune telling....those who have received a reading from me can tell you.....it has given them insight into decisions they are making today and helping them to see the "choices that they have". I think it is utmost important that people understand......nothing is written in stone......that at all times "we do have free will". I have been blessed with the gift of being clairsensitive, able to feel not just emotionally but even physically what one is going through, I am clairvoyant, given images of certain areas that pertain to the person the message is for. I also have been given the gift of clairaudient, which is being able to "hear" certain verbage, and sounds during a reading. I take very seriously using these gifts......and the impact that it can have on a person. I have seen some who have "gifts" exploit those they read......creating a fear which in my own beliefs is not what these "gifts" are about. I would ask and do ask those that I do read, to pray and reflect before a reading on what it is they are seeking insight into. It is a tremendous responsibility which I feel very blessed and honored to be given. I believe without a doubt that God gives us all "psychic abilities" or as I prefer that "intuitive ability". I very much believe in a loving and just God, who is very much alive and working today. God isn't a deity that you find just in a sanctuary or a church, God works outside of four walls, it us who limits what God can do. God is still showing us many miracles, and angels, and messengers, He knows the heart of those who seek Him. Its up to those who are seeking a spiritual path, to discover the uniqueness that God offers us all.
I had the privelege several years back to meet a wonderful lady, most of you know her as Joy. We met online in a chat room and we talked about various things but always avoided "metaphysics". Several occasions arose where we were to have the opportunity to meet in person but due to circumstances it didn't happen until I relocated to Kentucky. Joy and I finally met several years ago, and it was at that meeting....we both knew then we had to talk about "psychic abilities". Joy and I over the years developed not just a friendship, but have become like two sisters who have a very special bond and calling together to do. We are total opposites in so many ways in our beliefs yet we both are so much alike at the same time. It has been a privelege and honor over the years to watch Joy grow with her "gifts" but also in her personal life. She has been a inspiration and at times the backbone in helping to get HappyOver40 Psychics off the ground. We both are very excited about the work and calling we both have. We are always in awe how our gifts work together and compliment each other. We would hope if you haven't sat in on one of our sessions that you would venture in to observe. We have many ideas we are wanting to put into place, yet we both struggle with our work schedules, but we are both very determined to make it happen.....and as Joy and I both know.......that those "doors" will open when the timing is right.
I close with the following poem, which when you travel your own "dark moments" will be words of wisdom to see that there is hope and most of all, feel loved.
Namaste,
Debra
May You Always Feel Loved
May you find serenity and tranquility
in a world you may not always
understand.
May the pain you have known
and the conflict you have experienced
give you the strength to walk through life
facing each new situation
with optimism and courage.
Always know that there are those
whose love and understanding will always
be there, even when you feel most alone.
May you discover enough goodness in others
to believe in a world of peace.
May a kind word, a reassuring touch,
a warm smile be yours every day of your life,
and may you give these gifts as well as receive them.
Remember the sunshine when the storm seems unending.
Teach love to those who know hate, and let that love
embrace you as you go into the world.
May the teaching of those you admire
become part of you, so that you may
call upon them.
Remember, those whose lives you have touched
and who have touched yours are always a part of you,
even if the encounters were less than
you would have wished.
May you not become too concerned
with material matters, but instead place
immeasurable value on the goodness in your heart.
Find time in each day to see the beauty
and love in the world around you.
Realize that each person has limitless abilities,
but each of us is
different in our own way.
What you may feel you lack in one regard
may be more than compensated for
in another.
What you feel you lack in the present
may become one of your strengths in
the future.
May you see your future
as one filled with promise and possibility.
Learn to view everything
as a worthwhile experience.
May you find enough inner strength
to determine your own worth by yourself,
and not be dependent on another's judgements
of your accomplishments.
May you always feel loved.
Copyright, (c), Vision Impressions Debra's Poetry Of The Heart Series.
